Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Mummy whack the little butt!

En En was crying and screaming non-stop even it's already 10.30pm. Reason? She just wanted Ah Mah to accompany her to sleep and yet she was making fool of us. By that time, everyone already back to their bedroom and Ah Mah was awake because of her crying.

We stayed with En En in the room for more than half an hour and yet she's still refuse to sleep. Suddenly, she told Ah Mah she wanted to drink water. Alright, Ah Mah gave her the water she said she wants milk. Gave her the milk she said she wants water again! Ah Mah told her if she still keeps on doing this, Ah Mah was leaving the room. En En is trying to be funny with us but once Ah Mah went out from the room, En En never stop crying and screaming... yeah, to use this method as a "weapon" in order for Ah Mah to come back. She even forced herself to scream and cry, just imagine how naughty she can be!!! Ah Mah never came back and En En in fact was very tired as it already passed her sleeping time. Still making noise after 15 minutes... then she said she wants to pee but didn't want mummy's help to sit on the potty. She was screaming for Ah Mah till she finally pee abit on her pants!

Mummy gone mad already and can't help to force her siting on the potty but En En protested to wait for Ah Mah. Mummy whack her butt twice as her screaming and crying getting louder and louder... Ah Mah came and whack her again as she's apparently crying and screaming for no purpose in the first place. Then, En En vomitted due to screaming and crying for too long... everyone was angry with her and the most terrible part is she didn't allow mummy to clean her up or clean up the mess in the room! Yes, she used her crying to let us know that she didn't want mummy to do things for her at this moment and she wanted Ah Mah to do everything! This is just too much... Looks like she been too used to people listen to her all this while... right now everyone started to feel something must be done (rotan pls...) to avoid her from becoming too dominant, demanding and bossy.

Mummy is unable to sleep tonight... can't imagine how my cute little girl can turn into a horrible little monster that boiled our blood so badly! Looking at her sleeping now, mummy feel pity that she got whack but what to do?

12 comments:

Bryan's Mama said...

Sounds like En En is exerting her independence. Actually Bryan was like that for a short while when I was pregnant. People said that #1 child reacts like that when their mama pregnant with 2nd child. Bryan also cry till vomit. Tahan a bit lorr.....

nic said...

Sharine, I can imagine how you feel, very bad huh? That's part of the growing up process.....I guess ;) I agree with bryan's mama, #1 child will tend wanting more attention when their mama pregnant...remember, I told you about ezu? be patient k...i know u can...;)

Mummy to QiQi said...

prob due to the preg? qq was like that too when i was pregnant.

Lian said...

That's testing your patience to the maximum. At least Amah also whack a bit. It would be bad if mommy whack and Amah sayang, you know what I mean. Hopefully you find a solution.

mybabybay said...

She wants attention in the wrong way. Don't worry she will grow out of it but you need to be firm.

Mamalina said...

I don't have a 2nd child yet, so I'm not sure if this will work.

Just switch off the lights.. you stay with her in the bedroom and let her cry until she decides that she can't get her way and stops on her own.

If Ah Mah keeps coming every time she cries, then she knows that she has the upper hand.

Good Luck...

slavemom said...

Aiyo... cry till vomit. I'd be extremely angry too. If my boy cries to get his way, I'll try to distract him. If doesn't work, will threaten with cane. Still cry, kena whack. If cannot stop crying, I'll jes let him be. I cannot stand them crying for no reason.

Bryan's Mama said...

Hi Sharine, I just had the same episode tonight. Cried because didn't want to sleep although very tired (didnt nap) and sick also. CRied until vomit. I also whacked his backside...I was so angry!!!!!!

Angeleyes said...

It is a phase... Darrius has been like that since dono when... so now I just let him go lala-land before I come down to work...

mc said...

hi there, i'm a first time visitor to your blog. i have a one year old daughter and have been dreading the "terrible twos"... sounds bad, i must prepare myself.. thanks for sharing!

Mamalina said...

Aiyoo.. I'm dreading the time when Sean will go through this. Crying until vomit is no fun for us mummies...I guess this is why they call it Terrible Two!

Tim said...

Good Job! :)