Tag: SAHM vs FTWM vs PTWM

This is a truely easy tag for me. After been working for almost 5 years now, having dilemma after married, follow by the arrival of En En, I really think twice and thrice or I shall say endless time thinking whether to be SAHM or FTWM.

I was a very energectic young lady when I just newly graduated, looking forward to join corporate world as soon as possible. The idea to become SAHM never exist and I think that's not what my parent and myself expected. After so many dissapointments in real working life, I review back what's important in my life and another 30 years ahead. So, if possible, I would prefer to be PTWM.

Reasons:

1. I believe in early childhood education for my children and parent plays a very important role in framing the attitude & behaviour of the child when they are young. So, I will get more time spending with my child and the feeling that en en is so clingy to me make me feel great!

2. I can be a big spender at times. So, if I don't work I won't have money and can't buy things that I like. Therefore, I still need a flexible job which is able to pump in some cash into my account.

3. With so many hobbies that I have, inluding piano playing, scrapbooking and coming soon - knitting (OMG!) it's a very difficult time for me to make them good if I work full time.

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~~~Instructions~~~

Here’s how it works:

1. So easy peasy, if you were given a choice, would you be a SAHM or FTWM? Just provide 3 darn good reasons.
2. Include your post link to the list below and finally,
3. Tag another three mommies

List:
1. Immomsdaughter prefers to be a SAHM
2. Miche prefers to be a SAHM too.
3. SYH prefers to be a PTWM.
4. Shoppingmum is definitely a SAHM material.
5. WMD definitely prefers FTWM
6. Milkmaid prefers to be a FTWM
7. Shannon can’t decide, and want the best of both
8. Malaika's mummy prefers to be a PTWM.
9. Sharine prefers to be PTWM.

Now, I would like to know your choice:
1. Miranda - I think your reasons must be interesting
2. Bryan's Mama - need to see some update at your blog
3. Angeleyes - not sure whetehr you did this?
4. Sandra - Tag will always for you as you are bz but I know you are very multitasking
5. WenLim - hope to know you more